I find that the technical instructions of Chanmyay Satipatthana follow me into the sit, creating a strange friction between the theory of mindfulness and the raw, messy reality of my experience. The clock reads 2:04 a.m., and the ground beneath me seems unexpectedly chilled. I've wrapped a blanket around myself to ward off that deep, midnight cold that settles in when the body remains motionless. I feel a tension in my neck and adjust it, hearing a faint pop, and then instantly start an internal debate about whether that movement was a "failure" of awareness. The self-criticism is more irritating than the physical discomfort.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
Chanmyay Satipatthana explanations keep looping in my mind like half-remembered instructions. Observe this. Know that. Be clear. Be continuous. In theory, the words are basic, but in practice—without the presence of a guide—they become incredibly complex. In this isolation, the clarity of the teaching dissolves into a hazy echo, and my uncertainty takes over.
I attempt to watch the breath, but it feels constricted and jagged, as if resisting my attention. A tightness arises in my ribs; I note it, then instantly wonder if I was just being mechanical or if I missed the "direct" experience. This pattern of doubt is a frequent visitor, triggered by the high standards of precision in the Chanmyay tradition. Without external guidance, the search for "correct" mindfulness feels like a test I am constantly failing.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
I feel a lingering, dull pain in my left leg; I make an effort to observe it without flinching. My thoughts repeatedly wander to spiritual clichés: "direct knowing," "bare attention," "dropping the narrative." I find the situation absurd enough to laugh, then catch myself and try to note the "vibration" of the laughter. Sound. Vibration. Pleasant? Neutral? Who knows. It disappears before I decide.
I spent some time earlier reviewing my notes on the practice, which gave me a false sense of mastery. Now that I am actually sitting, my "knowledge" is useless. The body's pain is louder than the books. The knee speaks louder than the books. The mind wants reassurance that I’m doing this correctly, that this pain fits into the explanation somewhere. I don’t find it.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
I catch my shoulders tensing toward my ears; I release them, only for the tension to return moments later. The breath is uneven, and I find myself becoming frustrated. I observe the frustration, then observe the observer. Then I get tired of recognizing anything at all. In these moments, the Chanmyay instructions feel like a burden. They offer no consolation. They don’t say it’s okay. They just point back to what’s happening, again and again.
There’s a mosquito whining somewhere near my ear. I wait. I don’t move. I wait a little longer than usual. Then I swat. I feel a rapid sequence of irritation, relief, and regret, but the experience moves faster than my ability to note it. I see that I am failing to be "continuous," and the thought is just a simple, unadorned fact.
Experience Isn't Neat
The diagrams make the practice look organized: body, feelings, mind, and dhammas. But experience isn’t neat. It overlaps. Physical pain is interwoven with frustration, and my thoughts are physically manifest as muscle tightness. I sit here trying not to organize it, trying not to narrate, and still narrating anyway. My mind is stubborn like that.
Against my better judgment, I look at the clock. Eight minutes have passed. Time is indifferent to my struggle. The sensation in my leg changes its character. I find the change in pain frustrating; check here I wanted a solid, static object to "study" with my mind. The reality of the sensation doesn't read the books; it just keeps shifting.
The "explanations" finally stop when the physical sensations become too loud to ignore. I am left with only raw input: the heat of my skin, the pressure of the floor, the air at my nostrils. My mind drifts and returns in a clumsy rhythm. There is no breakthrough tonight.
I don't have a better "theory" of meditation than when I started. I am simply present in the gap between the words of the teachers and the reality of my breath. sitting in this unfinished mess, letting it be messy, because that’s what’s happening whether I approve of it or not.